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The Sissy And The Masc

Added: October 19, 2020 | Runtime: 10:01

Dominance and submission are existential poles of a spectrum within each and every one of us. We cannot identify with one side without having an innate understanding of its opposite - an inverted point of reference. Patriarchy has institutionalized shallow standards of masculinity that include: putting others down, bottom shaming, top's privilege, as well as demeaning, racist, and misogynist beliefs and actions that are wrecking the world. In general, being a piece-of-shit is not only expected; it’s encouraged. That is the very definition of being a coward - hiding behind a mask (masc) because, inside, you have nothing to feel manly about. Inside every dom top is a sissy boy.

Video concept by Finn Deerhart: http://www.finndeerhart.com

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Fuckit
10/19/2020
Great concept well executed.
billyb
10/19/2020
I will admit, that although I enjoyed the movie, I had difficulty relating the concept notes with the movie himself. the scene starts with a slender built naked young man sitting on a chair stroking himself, and really all we know about him is that he has a big cock. fast forward to the young man enters the room dressed in what I am assuming period dress, a fan and wearing shear panty hose. I guess he could be perceived as the submissive based on the some articles of dress the end and the nylons, but in terms of action, it is hard to determine who is the submissive and who is the sissy and who is the masc. I guess personally i didn't find either masculine in stereotypical terms, other than one had a large cock. Will be looking forward to the podcast for clarification. Other than that, beautifully shot, in a stunning location.
slb68107
10/20/2020
Beautifully photographed, as usual Davey. But I have to agree with billyb with regard to execution. I don't see a dom and a sub here. I see two self-absorbed young boys more interested in their own gratification than in any form of interaction. I definitely saw nothing related to the discussion in the concept paragraph. And that brings me to something I found very disturbing - the final statement in that paragraph. "... hiding behind a mask (masc) because, inside, you have nothing to feel manly about. Inside every dom top is a sissy boy. " That's unworthy of you, Davey. It's also a very blatant generalization, and - IMO - comes from someone wounded or bitter about past experience with the wrong kind of "masc". I'm a retired drag queen, born and raised farm brat, and have run the gamut in life experiences. I've known men of the type you speak of, and I find them tiresome and pitiable. I've known men so effeminate it's painful to watch them fumble through a day. I've also known men (and women) of both "types" that were as well adjusted, generous and loving as you could hope for. I'd like to believe I'm in that latter group, and I don't deny the others exist, but to make such a sweeping negative as that last sentence is just not the Davey Wavey I'd thought I'd come to know over the years of watching your videos.
Davey Wavey
10/21/2020
I hear what you're saying, but "sissy" - in this instance - isn't a slur. It's a term of empowerment. And indeed, inside every masculine man is the inversion of that masculinity... we all contain both sides of the same coin. We all contain both masculine and feminine energies; this video is an effort to balance both.
Davey Wavey
10/26/2020
Just wanted to follow up as I had a chat with Finn regarding your perspective. Here's a little bit more from Finn: "Yes, I think you are right in a lot of what you’re raising here. Also, I think you are pointing to the problem that we are trying to highlight--that “dom” and “sub” are constructs of language that we all define in different ways, sometimes quite divergently so. The intention that led us to this video creation was to take apart the common ways in which dom/sub are described and experienced and replace those constructions with our own suggestion: that one really creates these two ends of a polar spectrum in one’s self. A final note- What we see is both a result of what we are seeing (the object) and how we are seeing (our own process). What are we looking for? What are we not acknowledging?"
Erik3rsail
10/21/2020
Most alluring.
O8noel
10/21/2020
A nice concept. Clark Lewis is a nice addition. Porn and erotica needs more classical geeky/nerdy looking guys and not just a stereotypical hot guy with big glasses on him
Davey Wavey
10/21/2020
Yes, there is something deeply erotic about glasses!
TysFan
10/25/2020
I love the chemistry between these 2. Can’t get enough of them. The beautiful “sissy” boy was awesome. Showing him all he needed to get off! I wanted him!
Keyholekressin
10/30/2020
This was tantalizing and a beautiful conceptual shoot.
thisisbgm
11/01/2020
It's the same model for both characters, right? That seems like an important element to the video that some folks seem to be missing.
Davey Wavey
11/01/2020
Yes, the same model played both roles!
Leonardo
11/24/2020
I see the aristocrat meeting the common man, both enjoying the homage they pay to Lord Penis--the real master of us all!