Worthy Enough

I can tell already this is going to be interesting. Age is also something that gets you blocked. Being 76 does not mean I am no longer interested in sex, it is just that no one seems to be interested in me.

I see rejection as their loss. I might be a bit older, but I've gained lots of skills.

This toasty treat looks hot as hell, but I suspect Mr. Dale would exude erotic availability even if casually clothed, sitting on a curb, and eating a bowl of gruel sans clotted cream. Therein I find a bit of cognitive dissonance here. In today’s culture of “ #this, #that, #hot-the-other” muscled up young men who are “Not White” are just another very popular objective descriptor. What would arouse my inherent eros better, and serve the message about “worthiness despite difference”, in a far more effective way would have been to cast someone far more likely to be dismissed on Grindr. A pudgy, non-white person, with small genitals , inviting eyes, and a dazzling smile. I’m 80 , never was “cute,” have significant chronic fatigue (= no muscles),have a noticeable hernia, and do not remember the last time I had an erection. I also have a rich erotic and intimate relationship with one beneficial friend and am actively exploring something similar with another “re-found” friend.” I wish I knew how to create a video as hot as this one,, illustrative of our beautiful erotic connections, where our physical “types” not such a detractor. I’m vocal enough for three, so maybe I should just record our sounds😈

Erotism at it's very best. Superbly filmed.

Incredibly beautiful man with a scorching hot energy. Any day, any time. As for the 76 and 80 yo in the comments, you are just as worthy as this young, muscled, beautiful man. I am 75, debilitated by removal of prostate and resulting incontinence. But my libido is just as strong as when I was young and playing. Those Grindr rejectors are the ones who are unworthy. Thank you, Davey, for this affirmation.

The Best 👍

This is for sure as it also says "no fats. not fems. no asians" I fall into the first one, I have faced rejection in the wider community my whole life. Plus-size gays are not truly represented in porn, there is the occasional "bear" meaning muscle bear or acceptable to see bear men porn. I would love to see this true plus-size guy, this video is insanely hot. Hot bodies overcome much of the stigma I think as well. Lots of guys will do it with a hot guy, despite him being asian :)

The salient point of this is how self-love is the beginning of love, not just self-affirmation, but love. The subsidiary point is that chasing sexual thrills is one thing, finding deep and costly love requires more than texting on an app. I'm married to a man I met online, so I'm not dissing technology. Just saying that looking for affirmation from the superficial is not terribly promising.