Stockholm Syndrome - Himeros Backstage

I always love the chemistry among you three. My comment is about the shock displayed by Dwayne and Finn about a gay person who might not want to have anal sex. Such reactions can generate a kind of shame in"sides" i.e. those who eschew anal, penetrative sex. We are somehow conditioned to feel that we must fulfill the heteronormative role of either top or bottom. Some men are simply not attracted to anal sex whether the reason be physical wiring, preference, or even shame around the act. All reasons are valid. On the other hand, I feel that guys who say they want to have their hole destroyed may also be (but not always) victims of shame, seeking some kind of "punishment" for being gay. It might be an idea to have Dr. Joe Kort as a guest some day to discuss "sides", whom I believe are much more numerous among us than generally thought. Thanks.