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Added: October 12, 2020 | Runtime: 32:41

Talking about sex can be so challenging for us, especially while we are in the midst of a whirlwind of cocks, balls, fantasy and, unfortunately, mounds of pressure that we put on ourselves to be perfect sex partners - whatever that means! There are many reasons as to why we may not advocate for what we want. So often, we may not even be in touch with our own true desires; we likely show up and do what we have always done. Perhaps we strive to perform whatever assumptions we have absorbed from porn or from uninformed peers. Or, perhaps we elect to “go with the flow” instead of steering towards our own fulfillment. Maybe we feel unworthy of getting what we want. Whatever the cause of our own personal silence, the vast majority of us have never been encouraged to talk openly about our realities and logistics of real sex - the kind of sex that we co-create in real time with another being. When we begin opening up to our partners about what we like, what we want, and what we may not like, we refine our connections and throttle the excitement and authenticity in our sex. As authenticity increases, so does pleasure.

Play this game with a lover in a structured way, or simply utilize these cues to practice bringing your desire into a more fully embodied experience. You can direct your lover using words, movements, sounds and gestures. Our mother language is the body, so sometimes, even using your hand to guide him to where you want to be touched can be a profound revelation to your partner. The important feature of this practice is to take turns directing the flow of sex in order to get it just right for yourself and your buddy.

Video concept by Finn Deerhart: http://www.finndeerhart.com

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motion1234
10/12/2020
Incredible film.... and in a world, where most of our "instructions" to our sexual partner is limited to "just like that"....this video was a great reminder, or in a lot of cases, a first teaching that our partners can't read our minds, and that just some requests and words here and there won't take away from the experience, but it will add to it - in the most positive and sensual ways...
Davey Wavey
10/12/2020
Exactly! I think the most important thing that I learned about GREAT sex is to communicate - and not just expect our partners to read our minds. Communication can be sexy, and come in the form of words and dirty talk. But we can also communicate with grunts and groans, and with the movements of our bodies.
billyb
10/12/2020
So where to begin, I admit that when you mentioned in last weeks podcast, that there was a fisting scene, i thought I would be fast forwarding through it. In any other fisting scene I have partially watched, it has been from the perspective of the person doing the fisting, and has been more about how far they could get there hand up, with little regard for how the receiver was feeling, or taking any instruction from the receiver. This one however i watched from start to finish, as it was directed by the receiver, and was consistent with all of the other areas Adam and Nate explored, truly pleasing the receiver. a great scene from start to finish. And I think I may have a new favourite performer, I have always been on team Adam, and although he full delivered, I think I may have fallen for Nate, his emotion and displays of pleasure appear to be very raw and personal. A true pleasure to witness. Billy
Davey Wavey
10/12/2020
Nate and Adam are both true rockstars.
normron
10/12/2020
I absolutely loved this video. Each model’s sharing what he wanted and how he liked it was so hot and so real. While fisting has never been in my toolbox, I found it sensual and arousing. Nate wanted it and Adam obliged in a way that I found beautiful and intimate. I also loved their looking into each other‘s eyes. More please!
Davey Wavey
10/12/2020
I'm glad you loved it. This video is much longer than our typical video, but there was so much chemistry and connection that we filmed during their extended play session. It didn't feel right to cut any of the juiciness.
falparsi
10/12/2020
Beautiful! Erotic, honest, and I love how the two models are in constant engagement with each other. There's a continual dialogue, asking for what they want, either through words or gestures. I love this so much. A great modeling of consent and genuine caring for our own bodies and the bodies of our partners.
mantams
10/12/2020
Oh, YES! More Like This, please! The verbal and non-verbal communication was surprising to see at work without sounding like a sex manual and a real eye opener. And not to forget the communication that (should) goes on before sex and the after-glow. This has bumped to my all time favorite list, hands down.
natebate
10/12/2020
Wow! This is a longer video than most here. It needs to be longer because it flows as a journey of sexual pleasure of communicating what each partner in this scene enjoys most while the other listens and responds to the cues of his lover. Though they both attain an exquisite orgasm of their own in the end, the hottest thing is how they get there with each other. Lovemaking at its finest.
trmoore
10/12/2020
I love this video and how it demonstrates that checking in and asking if your partner is feeling comfortable doesn't have to be a mood killer. In fact, it makes the experience so much more hotter and pleasure-filled.
jonathanscircle
10/13/2020
Wow. Just wow.
amarich
10/13/2020
I have always thought of fisting as an aggressive sexual act. This amazing video has changed my mind on that. Here Adam and Nate share incredible intimacy and connection. There is no brutality here - just beauty. Thank you.
Dc1050guy
10/14/2020
This video is another in a long line of examples that show why Himeros is unique and wonderful: it is all about authenticity. And each of the H scenes does that in a way that shows the amazing and wonderful variety of man to man Connections. The variety of models and the genuineness of the way they relate to each other and act creates wonderful sexual energy that draws the viewer In & connect personally and allows him to share it and enjoy it. Thank you for the gift that is Himeros.
Homoerot
10/14/2020
This was one of the most beautiful fisting scenes between two men I have ever seen. Usually they are a turn off because there is so much gratuitous noise. What I liked here was that they both were so quiet. All their communication was through body language -- a look, a smile, a slight movement that helped their partner understand what was pleasurable. More Nate Grimes please.
boysofriverside
10/15/2020
another master piece, Finn you have done it again, thanks to Davey and crew!
aleksb
10/15/2020
Beauty & poetry! Fantastic piece!
Empatheros
10/21/2020
Best video for overall communication between the two for sure. Super hot. As others, I did not expect to accept and even be turned on RE fisting; but it's the trust and communication. Thanks Finn! Let's all "use our words" guys, it's hot!