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Into The Strange

Added: July 12, 2021 | Runtime: 20:56 | 41,187 views

The adjective strange comes from the Latin word extraneus, meaning “foreign” or “external.” Many of us often consider our innermost sexual impulses to be strange, no matter how many people may share similar desires. We may guard our longings from lovers and friends. In fact, one of the top questions asked in sex therapy: Am I normal? This question, itself, illustrates a deep vulnerability at the very heart of desire. And, for good reason, many of us have endured judgment and persecution over how and who we fuck. The need to be accepted may encourage us to obscure ourselves, but in so doing, we suffer from an unmet longing to be seen.

In general, the extreme compression and secrecy under which we have become autonomous sexual beings has deprived us of a descriptive vocabulary as well as insight into the symbolic nature of our fantasies and desires. Truly, the majority of our fantasies are glimpses into our emotional needs, not real life scenarios that require enactment. There is a spectrum of pragmatism and risk calculation that we are able to bring into acting upon our desires--but only if we exonerate them from beneath blankets of shame. When we feel less fearful of revealing ourselves, we enjoy deeper connections and increased satisfaction. We make more meaningful choices for ourselves and with others.

It can serve us well to remember that all desire springs from childish innocence - our literal childhoods - and is the life force that permeates every possible living thing. When we bring consciousness to the hidden realms within us, nothing is verifiably strange. Rather than question the normalcy of what brings our bodies alive, a more appropriate question might be: to whom am I strange?

Video concept by Finn Deerhart: http://www.finndeerhart.com

Recent Comments:
So to start off by saying that there isn't anything that Nate Grimes of Adam Ramsey could be in that would not be a home run for me seems a bit superficial, but they did deliver. Some of the fetishes they explored are not in my wheel house, and that is ok, no judgement, but it appeared as if the were secure enough in their relationship, to explore them as their authentic selves, and that was beautiful to witness in and of itself. Beautifully done, and grate concept Finn. you are right there is enough sham in our community. It shouldn't have to extend to what happens behind closed doors with two consenting adults. Just some random thoughts.
I actually started off being irritated at this video. Seeing Nate glued to his "device" while Adam does everything possible to get his attention is emblematic of the distraction-dictated, app-driven culture which I find tiresome and juvenile, while trying hard NOT to be judgmental the way I just was. (I've been called out for being glued to my phone in lieu of being present to those around me, and I'm no kid, nor millennial either.) But then the forced shoe-sniffing opens things up and the resulting range of play and experimentation gets increasingly engaging. I see now how the "device-drivenness" is in fact a cover for avoiding not so much others as our own deep desires, as we often opt for ersatz experience over honest sexual self-expression. It's rather sweet to see the denouement: returning to the most familiar of sexual practices, the innocence of masturbation as the landing place of exploration. Good visual metaphor for “We shall not cease from exploration And the end of all our exploring Will be to arrive where we started And know the place for the first time."
I guess "strange" is in the eye of the beholder. To me when two men are willing partners and no one is hurt during play or sex nothing is strange or not normal. In fact I found the whole experience beautiful with Nate rubbing his foot in Adam's beard. I found Adam's foot rubbing Nates chest and neck while standing very relaxing and hot. And I especially liked the two knee/leg chest massage and Adam massaging Nates upper chest with his ass. Please Adam, do that to me. The sexual release was awesome too. You can do this to me any time. The only thing I might not be able to take was that huge dildo but if you like it and can handle it, it's normal. I thought the whole scene was enjoyable to watch. But I can tell you this guys, if super hot Adam was playing with my ass the way he was playing with super hot Nate, that video game would have shut down instantly.
loved it, sexy models, fun to watch the exploration they engaged. I think even more kink and fetish should be featured on himeros. Definitely more piss play with both couples and groups--there's a lot of variety of scenes and situations that could be portrayed there. Love this site, good job by all involved.
Been a Nate-fan ever since "More Like This, " so this was wonderful; love the foot work and general body worship and the use of pressure to parts of the body. No communication by words, so the presumption/context is they know each other quite well (prefer some words/asks/check-ins, but that's just me). I continue to love the diversity of offerings on Himeros, and this, being a low-kink-level vid for me, is part of that. - - Need Nate Now! :-)
The opening scene reminded me of three of us opening a package of jockey shorts and putting on our "tighty whities" that in our minds brought us back to boyhood and playtime....
Wow, Nate has such a lovely set of low hangers!
Loved the video!! Where can I purchase that glove??
Adam Ramzi sure looks hot in his white socks and Hanes!

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