The “gloryhole” has become an iconic symbol of projection, power, and animalistic hunger for the cock. You could be anybody, and I don’t care, because you are a projection of my desire.
For many men, it has felt the safest to express hunger for cock in anonymity. In reality, this dynamic is a kind of headspace that we can create with a fuck buddy or a boyfriend. It’s a powerful kind of role-play that we can stage and enter.
Try this with a familiar buddy. Find or make a gloryhole and role play. Use each other’s bodies to access the primal head space where you don’t even care who is on the other side of the wall.