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Because erotic massages can be intimidating, we designed this video to guide viewers with simple tips to try at home with the help of sexologist Dr. Jallen Rix. This video featured Men.com exclusive Diego Sans alongside Cade Maddox.
Too many people think professional training is needed to give a nurturing and sensual massage. The truth is, with just a few simple tips and tricks, you can make your partner feel incredible.
It’s best to use some form of lotion or oil to make your touch smooth and fluid without catching any stray hairs. Be generous with this since it’s all about feeling sensual.
Never press directly on the spine. Working the muscles up and down on either side of the spine is great. The back and shoulder muscles carry a lot of stress, so spend a lot of time there.
There is no rule of silence for message. Ask your partner for input: “Too hard? Too soft? Where is it sore? Is there a part of your body you wish me to avoid?” If you feel at a loss as to what to do next, just ask, “What else can I do?”
What makes a massage an erotic one is that you are willing to explore the places that arouse your partner the most. Sensuously massage and pat his anus. Blow lightly on his neck. Use your fingertips to trace his lips and eyebrows. Use your teeth and lips to play with his nipples. Lightly tug on his armpit hair. Use your fingernails to gently scratch his balls. Stroke his cock, but don’t spend too much time on it - move to other parts of his body as well. There’s no limit to the yummy experiences you can give him.
Vary your touch often. There’s almost no way to do it wrong. Besides the traditional long, graceful strokes, try squeezing bigger muscles, putting long and slow pressure on them. Try using just your fingertips so lightly that you’re almost not touching your partner, like tiny little footprints all over his body. Some people love rhythmic tapping. You can use your knuckles, your fists, your forearms…or your whole body.
When a massage gets this hot, there’s nothing wrong with letting it become a mutual scene all by itself. However, it’s a unique experience to focus exclusively on your partner. Then, at another time, you can have a turn.
The greatest aphrodisiac in an erotic massage is anticipation. The longer you take to get to any climax, the greater and more powerful it will be. Whatever speed you are going at, go slower. Over and over again, at various times in the massage, remind yourself to go even slower.
Lastly, indulge yourself. Enjoy every single thing you do to your partner like he is the most precious treasure you will ever get the opportunity to touch.
Chances are, it’s going to drive him wild—and, at the very least, he’ll get some touch that we all don’t get enough of.
Allow the affection you have for him flow from your heart, through your hands, and into his body.
Notice, although you’re giving loving, sexy touch to him, you’re receiving a lot as well.
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