Bonus: The Kiss
As a Thanksgiving bonus in addition to our weekly videos, I'm excited to share this short video - where kissing is front and center.
A Tantric sex coach told us, “I hear a lot of men say that their favorite part of sex is kissing.”
Why then, does almost every porn or erotic film focus so heavily on everything else? Kissing is often presented as just a step on the pathway to acts deemed more explicit.
In this video, we’ll show some of those other acts - the sucking and cumming - but the level of intimacy we’re portraying will always link back to the pure potency and passion of lip to lip connection. Everything else is just details.
The two main principles to be demonstrated for hotter kissing are breathe and surrender. The video highlights the contrast between hungry passion and deep, slow intimate breathing, eye contact and sumptuous, savory kisses.
As a game to try at home, take turns being the giver and the recipient of a kiss. Kisser: Kiss the man like you like to be kissed. Recipient: Completely relax your lips and practice being a FULL recipient. Now switch roles.
Now, do the same exercise a second time. This time, now that your partner has already kissed you once in the way he loves to be kissed, kiss him back in that same way.
Look deeply into your lover’s eyes while kissing him. See if you can notice a softening and relaxation sensation around the area of your heart while you drink in each other’s sweet, luscious kiss.
Breathe deeply and slowly and fully while you kiss. See if you can slow down your breath to the pace of gentle swells on a calm ocean. It’s always fun to take note of the contrast between the speed of your heart and the speed of your breath. No matter how passionately you feel for this man and how much you’re ready to jump his bones, feel what it’s like to consciously slow down your breath and give space between your passionate face-loving.
Video concept by Brad Amberheart: http://www.breadamberheart.com